Well I think my big girl has turned a corner.. Again today she requested I turn on the shower.. Yahoo. That is so easy & peer pressure is a good thing sometimes but in this case it's EXCELLENT. The middle child wants to shower now too! So 1st the big girl showered herself all up then the middle girl & I & yes even the baby & I think she loves the shower most of all! Life just keeps gettig easier even with a 3rd in the mix.